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New wallpaper

I made myself a desktop wallpaper based on an image I found on another site. I did some work through GIMP software to remove some of the graininess while highlighting the edges. I really like having it on my desktop … Continue reading

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Being helpful without sounding preachy

As one who struggled for years with pornography addiction before managing to break free about 2-1/2 years ago, I try to offer support, encouragement guidance to others who struggle with pornography addiction and sometimes other sexual addictions through a few … Continue reading

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Pride and pornography use

I have often heard that Pride is the most dangerous of the seven capital sins. In terms of habitual pornography use, one might suppose that lust is the driving force, but I have been pondering how much harder pride makes … Continue reading

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‘What is my porn-addicted husband thinking?’

The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation. -Henry David Thoreau, Walden I participate in an online support forum primarily intended for people addicted to sex or pornography (mostly the latter). However, … Continue reading

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Guilt, regret and the porn addict

Phil Sandoval, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has a show on Immaculate Heart Radio, recently discussed an article from Psychology Today on the 6 Mental Health Habits That Kill Your Confidence. I think the article is especially relevant … Continue reading

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Learning to connect with people

So, I understand that one of the primary reasons I became addicted to porn in the first place was my inability to connect with others, which I believe is both a symptom and a contributing factor in my long-term depression. … Continue reading

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Fighting addiction without conversion

I get a little frustrated sometimes when I try to reach out to others through various online forums for pornography addicts. For me, a big part of the journey toward giving up pornography was coming to better understand God’s plan … Continue reading

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